Real vs. Fake Friends.

" A friend is someone who is there for you when he would rather be anywhere else"

So I have been really irritated lately about whether or not I have any friends out here in California. I am really tired of listening to others, giving them advice, being there for them and what do I get in return...... Nothing! Anytime there is something that is important to me it seems that I get blown off! I am just in shock at how others can treat people sometimes and well frankly Im tired of it.
I feel like I am a good person and I have alot to give to others but it seems most of the time someone is either insinuating that I am getting on their nerves and if that isn't happening then people are ignoring me. I don't know maybe I am being selfish.... but I feel like I am far from that and I try to respect others and I don't get that back in return. I think I won't even try being friends with the people who don't make the effort to be mine in return. I swear I went home and had so much fun because I actually felt like the people that hung out with me truly loved and cared about my well being. I know that maybe sometimes I am overbearing or I talk a lot but I know everyone else has flaws too. I don't need people in my life to make me feel less valuable just because I am who I am. I don't know if its California or what but the people out here are way different and definitely not as compassionate or caring. To me this will never truly be home!