So tonight I had my first cry because my husband is gone. I checked out another girls blog and she had a lot of deployment songs. ( Thanks Jen jk) It just really got me thinking about how much I take for granted when he is here. I mean something as simple as getting a bowl out of the cabinet is a task for me. We did everything together and he was pretty much my best friend. Ya we drove each other crazy but isn't that how things are when someone becomes your family sometimes. I cherish everyday that I am married. So many people have it rough and coming from a broken home myself I value what to love someone really means. I think it means giving when you cant give anymore, telling that person you love them daily, doing something nice for them when they least expect it, and trying your best to realize that you should wake up each day asking yourself what you can do to make that other person happy. Loving someone is hard.... no one says its supposed to be easy. You have to love that person on good days and bad and let them know when they are being a " jerk" whether they want to hear it or not. Love is about honestly, loyalty, compassion, understanding, and most importantly respect. I know my relationship is not perfect and neither is my husband....... but all that matters is he is perfect for me.
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